Sex Addiction

Aug 1, 2019 | Addiction, Sex Positivity

Well we decided to step in it this time. Take a look as I interview Dr. Darrel Ray about the sex addiction industry, it’s problems and its connection to christianity and the twelve steps.

For me, any conversation about sex addiction starts with this article by Dr. Marty Klein before leading inevitably to The Myth of Sex Addiction and other works by Dr. David Ley.

Some recommended and sex positive treatment resources for problematic sexual behavior –

Secular Therapy Project

AASECT

For a more indepth and technical look at one treatment model, I recommend Treating Out of Control Sexual Behavior: Rethinking Sex Addiction by Douglas Braun-Harvey and Michael A Vigorito.

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