Designing Relationships with Marie D'Elephant

Everyone’s Favorite Agnostic, Marie D’Elephant joins us for a conversation about the relationship escalator and how to negotiate the relationship of your dreams. Catch us as we discuss all things sex and love and how to custom build the love of your life. Take a look.

Catch Marie on the Everyone’s Agnostic Podcast and learn more about her work at

Marie mentioned Ester Perel’s Mating in Captivity (and Christopher Ryan’s Sex at Dawn) as well as a plethora of polyamory books. Check out

The Ethical Slut

More Than Two

Opening Up

The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory

The Polyamorist Next Door

For a healthy ENM diet we also recommend


The Savage Love Cast



Some additional resources-


Multiamory RADAR

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