The Fantasy Of Sex Addiction

Sex can be scary. We want it, sure, but we also tend to worry about how much we want it. So much so that it almost feels like it controls us, and sometimes, I think we wish that it would. If we we’re addicted to porn, we wouldn’t be able to say no to it. This week Dr. Darrell Ray returns to the SecX stage to help us sort through the awe, the mystery, the fantasy and the bullshit surrounding the perplexing and problematic porn paradigm of pornosexuality. Catch the episode below and be sure to check back afterwards for some footNOTES!

THE PSYCHEDELIC SCIENCE OF ‘GOONING’ — OR MASTURBATING INTO A TRANCE by Michael Stahl for Mel Magazine

Solosexuality and Pornosexuality: Learned or Innate? by Robert Weiss for Psychology Today

Is a Preference for Solo Sex Healthy? by Robert Weiss for In The Rooms

This Sexist Cartoon Everyone Is Freaking Out About Is Actually Fetish Porn by Rachel Krishna for Buzzfeed

NSFW- ‘Findom Relapse and Addiction’ as explained by (porn performer) Goddess Lila

NSFW- ‘About pornosexuality…’ as explained by (porn performer) Miss Demonia

NSFW- ‘Porn Addiction’ Hypnosis file from ViVe Hypnosis

NSFW- ‘What is Pornosexual? an Exploration of Gooning and Porn Addiction’ as explained by (porn performer) TeenyGinger