Mastering Masturbation

Jul 6, 2022 | Self Care, Body Acceptance, Sex Positivity

In Spain, the best upper sets do it. Lithuanians and Letts do it. The Dutch in old Amsterdam do it, not to mention the Finns. Some Argentines without means do it, people say in Boston even beans do it. So let’s do it- let’s finally talk about masturbation. Over the past few years SecX has spent so much time debunking the myths of masturbation causing blindness and ED and everything else that we may not have taken the time to discuss why we should pretty much all make like educated fleas and do it. This week Sex Coach Shannon Burton joins Kara and I for a conversation about <insert every locker room euphemism ever stated out loud here> and of course your calls and questions. Catch the episode below and be sure to check back afterwards for some footNOTES!

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