Unpacking Your Kinks

Apr 14, 2021 | Kink, Secular Sexuality, Sex Positivity

Maybe every 10th consultation I receive as a therapist is some version of the question- “is it okay that I’m into x?” followed quickly by “how tf am I going to tell my partner/find a partner that’s okay with me being into x.” Having powerful friends often leads to powerful answers so I’m incredibly proud and grateful to be able to flex my little black book and bring in the wisdom of a true rockstar and expert in exactly these questions. Joining me is a business coach quoted in everything from Cosmo to Forbes with a resume to back it up, Amberly Rothfield, phone sex operator and adult industry consultant, has heard it all returns to the show to talk about boundaries, communication and dirty little secrets, not to mention your calls! Catch the episode live 4/15 7p CT and be sure to check back afterwards for some footNOTES!

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Twitter- @AmberlyPSO * Instagram- @amberlyownsyou * YouTube- Bare Disclosure

BUT PLEASE don’t skip her website and it’s beautiful content idea generatorhttps://amberlyrothfield.com/

How To Unpack Your Sexual Shame & Turn It Into Your Greatest Teacher by Alexandra Roxo for MBG Relationships

How to talk about kink with a new partner, because it doesn’t have to be awkward by Tracey Anne Duncan for Mic

Getting Kinky: How to Share Your Fetish or Fantasy by Jeremy Nicholson M.S.W., Ph.D. for Psychology Today

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