Spanking

Impact play, or ‘spanking’ to you vanilla normies, is the quickest dividing line for separating out those who are ‘in the lifestyle’ and those who are becoming increasingly uncomfortable as this sentence progresses. Whether it’s a polite love tap or a pant splitting bruise, a smack on the ass is the international invitation to the pain for pleasure club. For those curious about taking a walk on the wild side and those already sore and squirming in their seats, it can be hard to put a finger, let alone an open palm, on why exactly this unpleasant act can have so much appeal. Hopefully I can shed some light on why they, or um, we, or perhaps you yourself, find this baffling and taboo enterprise so alluring.

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Introducing Secular Sexuality

As a host on Secular Sexuality I get the chance to help people not only feel more comfortable but empowered by providing education on everything from condoms to pronouns. We get to be one of the few voices speaking about personal issues like opening up a relationship or embracing bisexual monogamy. We play games, follow sex in the news, and introduce all kinds of ways to be, to love and even to fuck. And yeah, we get to talk about porn, even the weird stuff (who knew Rick and Morty parodies would be so big this year?)


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